用身心靈去看世界【一】－《自由，夢想與心愿》/ Look at the world with Body, Mind And Soul [1] -《Freedom, Dream and Wish》

“自由”，相信是每個人渴望所擁有的。我更相信“夢想”是每個人必定去追求的，以便完成或實現個人心目中的“心愿”。如果您有個夢想，有個心愿，那個夢想做了或實現了後是不犯法或正當的，但某某人偏偏阻擋您不讓您去實現，您會怎樣？

前幾天，小妹對著媽說她想過了農歷新年後到新加坡工作，媽聽後立刻反對。反對聲浪傳到我這裡，我看見兩方都不開心。我最清楚媽在想甚麼，媽是擔心小妹一人在外國沒人照顧，撐不住。小妹呢，更不用說，她要甚麼都希望得到。中間人最難做，為了雙贏局面，我終於想到了怎樣讓兩方完美收場。

我先讓小妹對我訴苦，完了，到我這做哥哥的“開槍罵人”了。我對小妹說，如果她真的很想在新加坡創事業，我是一百巴仙支持她。但現在是十一月，離開農歷新年還有大約兩個月，我對妹說不如過了農歷新年後如果真的找到了工，那才正式對媽說吧，畢竟大家還不知道是否會找到工作，現在不必白說空頭話。妹聽了感覺明白了些，當然我這做哥哥的是以真心來支持她，這畢竟是她的夢想與心愿，沒有阻擋的必要。輪到媽時，我對她說既然妹有她的夢想，就讓她試試吧，如果成功創出一片天地，做媽的也會高興吧。如果失敗，撐不住，至少她會想到家人，想到祖國，家人還是會疼愛她，歡迎她回家在祖國工作。媽聽後靜靜地，但還是有點堅持她的想法，我看得出她在想甚麼，但至少我讓她明白甚麼是個人的夢想與心愿。

做完中間人後，事情可說暫時告一段落，我當然希望所說的會成為最終的目標與答案。

“Freedom”, I believe everyone is desire to having it. “Dream”, I believe everyone pursuit or ambition to it, in order to complete or achieve what human desire about (their wishes). If you have a dream or a wish, the dream is legitimate by the law after achieved, but someone stop you to achieve your dream, what will you do or what do you feel?

Few days ago, younger sister told Mom that she has a wish or dream to work at Singapore after Chinese New Year, Mom against her after listened to what sister told about. I knew it just after a moment, both of them is not happy. I understand what Mom thought than anyone else is, she worried sister working alone at foreign country and no one takes care of her and will give up later. I understand what sister thinking too, what she desires she will get it or achieve it at the end. I became the middle man, in order to have a win-win situation, I had an idea finally.

I let sister complained what ever she don’t like to me first, and then is my turn to “scold” her. I told her if she really want to work at Singapore, I’m 100% support her. But now is November, still have around 2 months to go for Chinese New Year. I told her wait until if she really appointed by any company, then only officially told Mom about the career rather than told Mom now cause we do not know whether she will really appointed by any company or not. She seems like understand something after listened to what my suggestion, but of course this is my true support from my heart, no point to stop her from what she wanted for her dream. Now is Mom’s turn, I told her since sister has a dream, let her try. If she success in what she wanted for her dream, at lease Mom will be glad. If she fail and give up, at least she would think of her family, think of her country; family still will love her, welcome her back to work at her own country. Mom became silent after all, but yet she still persist her own thinking. I understand what she’s thinking, but at least I let her understand what personal dream is and aspiration of someone.

After all, the case considered come to the end for the time being and of course I do hope what I said will become the final result.

心靈感應【二】 / Telepathy [2]

已經用了多天的時間試著為某某同事的手提電腦安裝某某軟件，從早搞到接近放工還搞不好，唯有再拖一天因為除了安裝這軟件以外還有一大堆任務等著我煩。不行了，放工時間要到了，唯有先見她後告知她需要再拖一天。

就快走到她座位時，看她拿著電話筒準備打電話，我的心靈感應第六感又來了。我猜想她一定是想打給我，她看見我後笑了。我問她是否正想打電話給我，她驚訝問我為何會知道。我。。。真的不知道怎樣回答她，只好回她可能是心靈感應或心靈相通囖。她，笑了。

這真的是我感應到的，原理其實很簡單。人有腦電波，當人與人之間想著同一個念頭時，同樣的腦電波就會產生，同樣的腦電波會互相吸引，而變成了心靈感應。其實這種心靈感應已經發生很多次了，只是沒說出來。你，覺得心靈感應玄不玄？

Has been few days trying to installed software to one of my colleague's laptop, tried from morning till nearly off work still haven't settle yet. The only way I can do is postpone 1 more day because beside this issue still go a lot of issues waiting for settle. Time consuming, nearly reach off work time already, I got to inform her first about the job postpone 1 more day for her laptop.

When I almost reach her seat, I saw her holding the phone calling someone, my six senses or telepathy feeling is back. I guess she is calling me, she smile when saw me. I asked her whether she is calling me or not, she felt surprised and asked me how I know. I … don't really know how to answer her, I told her maybe caused by telepathy or my six senses. She laughs finally.

This is what actually I felt from the beginning, and the theory is easy to understand actually. Human got brain wave, when someone thinking something same with someone else, the same brain wave will be produced. The same brain wave will attract each and other, and it will become telepathy. Actually this kind of feeling happened a lot of times already, but I didn't speak it out. Do you think telepathy weird?

浮羅浪交怡素食館 / Langkawi Island Vegetarian Cafe

二零零六年十二月，與家人去了一趟浮羅浪交怡之旅。旅游期間不忘尋找素食飯店，果然不負我望，第一個晚上就給我找到了。這家店名叫“心安純素齋料食管”坐落于浮羅浪交怡市鎮中心(Kuah Town),主要買的是自助式雜飯，但菜式不多。這裡也提供點菜方式，除此之外，這裡也有煮各式各類湯麺。來到浮羅浪交怡，如果擔心找不到素食餐廳，不防留意下這間素食館吧。

想知道更多的素食館，請瀏覽素食園地。

At December year 2006, I had a family trip to Langkawi Island. During the trip I tried to look for Vegetarian Restaurant, without disappointed I found a vegetarian café. The café named as “Xin An Vegetarian Café”, located at the town center (Kuah Town).

The main service they providing is self-service dishes with rice, but not much dishes. Beside this, they providing on the sport dishes order and few styles of soup noodles. If you are worry about cannot find vegetarian restaurant or café during your trip to Langkawi Island, pay some attention to look for this Vegetarian Café.

If you are looking for more or others vegetarian restaurant, please visit Vegetarian Park.

人生瓶頸 / The Bottleneck of Life

人生旅程中有太多事起起伏伏，跌跌撞撞，失敗了站起來從新來過。某天聽著某某人對著她的上司陳訴她在公司工作了十多年，但就是感覺在生活中缺少了某些東西，那個早上眞的不想出門不想上班，陳訴時還一度落淚。

當時的我是不小心聽到的，感覺當時的情況很悲。為何我感覺到呢，因為我也曾遇過或經歷過，這就是我稱之為人生瓶頸。愿妳和大家能快樂地活下去。

Too many things happening ups & downs in our life journey, and staggering along our life. After fall down, stand up & continue with a new life style. One day, I accidentally listened to someone mentioned to her manager about her life. She told her manager after working more than 10 years in the same company, she felt she miss out something in her life. She doesn’t really want to come to work in the morning, she was crying at the same time.

I felt sad and sorrow at the moment. Why I feel so? Because I did experienced what she felt before, and this is what I call the bottleneck of life. Hope “you” and everyone can live happily in the future.